Depression & Low Energy

Why do I have no motivation even when I am restless?

By Tiffany Bergin, C-IAYT · CIYT  ·  Wisdom Library

Feeling simultaneously exhausted and restless is a sign of a mixed nervous system state, often called "agitated depression." Your sympathetic nervous system is firing adrenaline (making you feel wired and restless), while your dorsal vagal system has pulled the emergency brake to conserve energy (killing your motivation and physical drive).

The paradox of agitated depression

We usually think of depression as a state of complete lethargy, and anxiety as a state of high energy. But the nervous system does not always fit neatly into these boxes. It is entirely possible to experience both states at exactly the same time.

Imagine sitting in a car, pressing the gas pedal all the way to the floor, while simultaneously pulling the emergency brake as hard as you can. The engine is roaring, the car is vibrating with trapped energy, but you are not moving an inch. This is what agitated depression feels like in the body. You have the restless, buzzing energy of anxiety, but the profound physical heaviness and lack of motivation characteristic of depression.

Why the body pulls the emergency brake

When you experience chronic stress, your sympathetic nervous system pumps out adrenaline and cortisol to help you fight or flee. But if the stress goes on for too long, and you can neither fight nor flee, the body realizes it is running out of resources. To prevent you from literally working yourself to death, the older, more primitive part of your nervous system (the dorsal vagal complex) steps in and forces a shutdown.

The problem is, the threat hasn't gone away. So the brain is still screaming "Do something! Fix it! Move!" (restlessness), but the body is responding with "We have no energy left. Shut down immediately" (lack of motivation). The result is a maddening sense of wanting to act, but feeling physically incapable of starting.

"Action is movement with intelligence. The world is filled with movement. What the world needs is more conscious movement, more action." — B.K.S. Iyengar, Light on Life

How to untangle the mixed state

When you are in this state, trying to force yourself to be productive usually makes the restlessness worse, because it adds more pressure to an already overwhelmed system. Conversely, trying to force yourself to "just relax" is impossible, because the adrenaline won't let you sit still.

In therapeutic yoga, we approach this mixed state by first addressing the hyperarousal. We use grounding, rhythmic, and repetitive movements to give the restless energy a safe outlet. Once the "gas pedal" eases up, we use supported restorative poses to signal profound safety to the body, allowing the "emergency brake" to finally release so true rest can occur.

Frequently asked questions

Is it normal to feel exhausted but unable to sleep?
Yes, this is a classic symptom of a mixed nervous system state. The body is physically exhausted (dorsal vagal collapse), but the mind is still perceiving a threat and pumping out adrenaline (sympathetic hyperarousal). It feels like being 'tired and wired' at the same time.
Why do I want to do things but physically can't start them?
The desire to do things comes from the cognitive brain and the sympathetic nervous system looking for an outlet. The inability to start comes from the dorsal vagal system, which has effectively pulled the emergency brake on your physical energy to conserve resources.
How do I fix the 'tired and wired' feeling?
You have to address the hyperarousal (the 'wired' part) before you can address the exhaustion. Grounding practices, slow exhalations, and supported restorative poses help signal safety to the nervous system, allowing the adrenaline to clear so the body can finally access true, restorative rest.

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Tiffany Bergin

C-IAYT · CIYT · Iyengar Yoga Teacher · Functional Nutrition & Lifestyle Educator

Tiffany is a certified yoga therapist and Iyengar yoga teacher based in Minnesota. She works with people navigating chronic pain, digestive health, hormonal shifts, and the stress of daily life — bringing together therapeutic yoga, functional nutrition, and somatic practice into individualized care. Learn part of her story →

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