Identity & Life Change

How do I find stability when everything is crazy?

By Tiffany Bergin, C-IAYT · CIYT  ·  Wisdom Library

When life feels chaotic, you cannot think your way into stability. You have to locate it in the physical body first. By giving the mind a precise, structured task — like aligning the feet in a standing pose — we interrupt the cycle of anxiety and establish a reliable center of gravity that holds steady regardless of external circumstances.

The mind-body override during chaos

When everything around us is changing or unpredictable, the mind goes into overdrive trying to anticipate and control the outcome. This mental spinning disconnects us from our physical presence. We stop feeling our feet on the ground; our breathing becomes shallow and erratic. The more chaotic the external world becomes, the more we try to manage it with our thoughts, leading to exhaustion and a profound sense of instability.

You cannot solve this kind of instability by thinking harder. The solution is to drop the awareness out of the spinning mind and into the structure of the body.

Turning toward the light of awareness

In times of transition, such as the shift from winter to spring or during a major life change, the practice is about turning toward the light of our own internal awareness. We use the precision of Iyengar yoga to anchor the mind. When you are asked to focus intensely on the exact placement of your back heel or the lift of your inner arch, there is no room left for worry. The mind becomes singular in its focus.

"Yoga has a beginning, but not an end." — Geeta Iyengar

Building a foundation you can trust

Stability is built from the ground up. In therapeutic yoga, we use standing poses to establish this foundation. When the legs are strong and the feet are firmly planted, the nervous system receives a signal of safety and support.

As Dr. Lois Steinberg notes in her clinical guidance on standing poses, proper engagement requires intensifying pressure to the outer heel and lifting the inner ankle, shin, and thigh. This level of physical precision demands complete mental presence. It teaches you how to hold yourself steady when the ground beneath you feels like it is shifting.

Frequently asked questions

How does yoga help when life feels chaotic?
When external circumstances are unpredictable, yoga provides a reliable internal structure. By focusing intensely on physical alignment and the breath, you give the mind a specific, bounded task. This interrupts the cycle of anxiety and brings your awareness back to the present moment, creating a sense of stability from the inside out.
What poses are best for finding stability?
Standing poses, such as Virabhadrasana (Warrior poses) and Trikonasana (Triangle pose), are foundational for building stability. They require strong engagement of the legs and feet, which grounds the nervous system. Supported inversions, like Setu Bandha Sarvangasana, are also excellent for calming the mind and restoring equilibrium.

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Tiffany Bergin

C-IAYT · CIYT · Iyengar Yoga Teacher · Functional Nutrition & Lifestyle Educator

Tiffany is a certified yoga therapist and Iyengar yoga teacher based in Minnesota. She works with people navigating chronic pain, digestive health, hormonal shifts, and the stress of daily life — bringing together therapeutic yoga, functional nutrition, and somatic practice into individualized care. Learn more →

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